I didn't post for DESIGN WALL MONDAY- Yesterday was a Holiday meant for Remembering those who have gone before. I have a rich heritage and I revere my ancestors who made hard choices in their lives. I wish I felt I was making a difference, some days, I just don't want to TRY! I don't think that my Children and Grandchildren know how I really feel. I've tried to show them, but the things that matter most to me don't matter much to them...I went to sleep crying.
So instead of something Quilt-y today I am recapping the LONG week-end...
Friday I got up EXTRA early (for me) and drove up to watch DD#1 children while they attended the Temple with some friends in Portland. She left me a list of what to do while I was there. Pictures were on that list. So here are just a few that I managed to take, between the times they were testing my patience.
When I arrived the kids were eating breakfast and watching Videos. Their Parents had left shortly before.
The 2nd picture is of a wet Dragonfly that we found in the roses outside. They played with the sprayer hose more than I wanted them too, just saying...(no pictures)
It was a nice day for reading, riding and watching them play outside. Friday night I made Goulash and Grandpa came to eat with us. He had a Church Meeting so we ate early. Because this grandma isn't so patient and probably more because I was tired, it was an early bedtime for all of them. Saturday morning another baby-sitter came to relieve me so I could drive to Moses Lake for my Neices' baby Girl Shower. I stopped by and picked up my Sister to ride with me. We got a Text from a Brother who lives in Moses Lake. He asked if we were coming to go to the cemetery to put flowers on our parents grave. He didn't know about his daughter's Baby Shower.
Cute "PINK" cupcakes. The plate behind had my Banana bread on it.
The soon to be Mommy of a baby Girl opened the gift that I took up for her. My sister told me she had this Crocheted dress, she thought I'd made it. I'm not sure if it was made by me or my mother or grandma Waite. It just needed a petticoat to go under it. I don't usually re-gift, but this was a special thing for me to give to her. I think Grandma Waite would be happy to know she had one for her baby girl. She taught me to how to make them. My former sister-in-law was there and took my picture with her holding the dress.
Here is us "Brown" Girls
Roma, Debbie, Mindy, Mary (me) and Sheila
Cole, the BIG brother, was there to help. Cousin Danette put the 'feet' on his face and Mindy's tummy.
This is the dress my sister sewed up on our Mother's "Bernina" that morning. This is our way of keeping our mother's memory alive. We met with two of our brothers out at the Cemetery after the baby shower.
4 of the 5 of us "Brown" kids
Mary (me), Selwyn, Roma and Derlyn
The weather didn't save many of my sister's flowers for Decoration Day, the ones she had went on her in-laws grave. Derlyn brought a Red, White and Blue bouquet with a Flag and Selwyn picked up some pretty roses to put in the vase. My Daddy and Mama loved thier roses.
Since I was traveling past where my Father-in-law is laid to rest I had to stop for a picture at least. I didn't have any flowers to put on it and they hadn't out any flags out just yet. My DH hadn't seen the headstone either, and we didn't know if we would go back up there on Monday so just a Picture is all I get this time.
MONDAY- DH was up and gone to the Home Depot early. He picked up a new DOOR for our house and some baby blue paint for it. The paint was too light for me but we will get another can that is closer to the color on the trim of the house. While the paint was drying and before the rain...We went and picked up some old pallets to make a bench for our back patio- like I'd seen on my friend's Facebook.
HERE is a link to see a picture of what it should look like... the following are the in-process pictures I took while DH was putting ours together.
I bought some High density foam for the pads and some spray paint. I still need to make the waterproof type covers for it, too. The rain put a damper on the finishing and it was time to make Potato Salad for our impromptu BBQ that we had with our friends before we went to see a Movie. The Movie wasn't as good as I'd hoped and both me and my friend considered leaving in the middle of it. I even dozed off for a minute...It was just over the top---TOO much suggestiveness for a PG movie, IMHO. It didn't help that I have the memory of seeing it back in 1975 with Robert Redford and Mia Farrow, so sorry- Leo just doesn't compare! Toby Maguire did a good job with his part, I liked him.
We missed going out to DH's Sister's for a BBQ. We just can't be everywhere, hard as we try. I am counting the days until my family is home to visit. I have a lot of things left to get ready for them. I'm happy they want to come. I miss them so much and wish they all weren't so far away!